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Fear & Anxiety

My child is going through something dangerous and I'm paralyzed with fear. What do I do?


Old TestamentPsalm 121:1-4

I will lift up mine eyes unto the hills, from whence cometh my help. My help cometh from the LORD, which made heaven and earth. He will not suffer thy foot to be moved: he that keepeth thee will not slumber. Behold, he that keepeth Israel shall neither slumber nor sleep.

This psalm was sung by travelers on dangerous roads, where real threats waited beyond every hill. Its central claim is that God's watchfulness never lapses: he does not doze off while the people he loves are in danger. For a parent who cannot watch over their child every hour, the psalm points to the one who can and does.

New TestamentLuke 18:1-8

And he spake a parable unto them to this end, that men ought always to pray, and not to faint; Saying, There was in a city a judge, which feared not God, neither regarded man: And there was a widow in that city; and she came unto him, saying, Avenge me of mine adversary. And he would not for a while: but afterward he said within himself, Though I fear not God, nor regard man; Yet because this widow troubleth me, I will avenge her, lest by her continual coming she weary me. And the Lord said, Hear what the unjust judge saith. And shall not God avenge his own elect, which cry day and night unto him, though he bear long with them? I tell you that he will avenge them speedily. Nevertheless when the Son of man cometh, shall he find faith on the earth?

Jesus tells this parable to address the exhaustion of long, unanswered prayer. If an unjust judge eventually responds to persistence, how much more will a loving God respond to a parent who will not stop praying for their child. The point is not technique but tenacity.


A path forward

  1. Write your child's name at the top of a page and pray over them specifically every morning this week: not a general prayer but naming what you fear and what you hope for them.

  2. Identify one thing you can actually do to support your child right now versus one thing that is out of your control. Focus your energy on the former and practice releasing the latter.

  3. Call one other parent who has been through something similar. Their survival and their perspective will give you something to hold onto that abstract encouragement cannot.


Closing verse

Can a woman forget her sucking child, that she should not have compassion on the son of her womb? yea, they may forget, yet will I not forget thee. Behold, I have graven thee upon the palms of my hands; thy walls are continually before me.

- Isaiah 49:15-16

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