People keep quoting verses at me about trusting God and it makes me feel worse, not better. I do not know how to say that without sounding faithless. What do I do?

“I have heard many such things: miserable comforters are ye all.”

Job's friends began well, sitting with him in silence for seven days. It was when they started explaining his suffering that he called them miserable comforters. The book of Job spends most of its length on their theologically respectable speeches, and at the end God says they did not speak rightly about him. Scripture itself makes room for the complaint that well meant religious answers can land as cruelty.

“Rejoice with them that do rejoice, and weep with them that weep.”

Paul's instruction to the Roman church is to rejoice with those who rejoice and weep with those who weep. It is a command about matching people rather than fixing them. Weeping with someone requires you to stay in their situation rather than lift them out of it with an explanation. Where that is missing, verses get deployed to end a conversation rather than to sit inside one.