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Identity & Worth

It is not just that I did bad things. I feel like I am something bad, and I do not know how God looks at that.


Old TestamentZephaniah 3:19

Behold, at that time I will undo all that afflict thee: and I will save her that halteth, and gather her that was driven out; and I will get them praise and fame in every land where they have been put to shame.

Zephaniah spends most of his short book announcing judgment, and then at the end the tone turns. God speaks about gathering the lame and the driven away and reversing their reputation in every place where they had been put to shame. Notice the specificity: he addresses not only their guilt but the humiliation publicly attached to them. Shame is treated as something God intends to deal with directly.

New TestamentJohn 8:10-11

When Jesus had lifted up himself, and saw none but the woman, he said unto her, Woman, where are those thine accusers? hath no man condemned thee? She said, No man, Lord. And Jesus said unto her, Neither do I condemn thee: go, and sin no more.

A woman is dragged into a public courtyard and used as a test case, exposed in front of a crowd of men holding stones. Jesus refuses the trap, empties the courtyard, and then speaks to her alone. What he says separates the two things shame always fuses together: he does not condemn her, and he does not pretend nothing happened. Both halves matter if you feel defined by what you did.


A path forward

  1. Learn to say the two sentences separately: what I did was wrong, and I am not beyond loving. Shame collapses them, so practise holding them apart.

  2. Tell one safe person, a pastor or a counsellor, the thing you have never said out loud. Shame is the one thing that reliably weakens when it is spoken.

  3. Read John 8 and the account of Peter's restoration in John 21 this week, watching how Jesus treats people who have been publicly disgraced.


Closing verse

For the Lord GOD will help me; therefore shall I not be confounded: therefore have I set my face like a flint, and I know that I shall not be ashamed.

- Isaiah 50:7

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