Temptation
There is something I keep doing that the Bible never mentions by name. How do I work out whether it is actually wrong for me?
“Search me, O God, and know my heart: try me, and know my thoughts: And see if there be any wicked way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting.”
David ends a psalm about God's total knowledge of him with an invitation rather than a defense. Having spent the whole poem admitting there is nowhere to hide, he asks to be searched anyway. It is the prayer of a man who suspects his own self-assessment is unreliable and would rather be told the truth than stay comfortable. That posture is where an honest answer starts.
“Hast thou faith? have it to thyself before God. Happy is he that condemneth not himself in that thing which he alloweth. And he that doubteth is damned if he eat, because he eateth not of faith: for whatsoever is not of faith is sin.”
Paul is refereeing a real dispute in Rome over food and holy days, where sincere believers landed in different places. He refuses to hand down a universal rule and points inward instead: act from settled conviction, not from a shrug. His standard is not whether something appears on a list, but whether you can do it in faith, without needing to look away.
A path forward
Ask three diagnostic questions in writing this week: does this build anything, does it own me, and would I be relaxed if the people I respect could see it? Vague unease usually has a specific cause underneath it.
Take it to God directly, pray Psalm 139 back to him, then sit still for a few minutes instead of moving straight on. Conviction tends to arrive quiet and specific rather than loud and general.
Ask one mature Christian who knows you well, and be specific rather than hypothetical. People who love you can often see the answer you have been circling.
Closing verse
“And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God.”
- Romans 12:2
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