Work & Vocation
My job gets my best hours and my family gets whatever is left over. How do I get the balance back without losing my income?
“There is one alone, and there is not a second; yea, he hath neither child nor brother: yet is there no end of all his labour; neither is his eye satisfied with riches; neither saith he, For whom do I labour, and bereave my soul of good? This is also vanity, yea, it is a sore travail.”
The Preacher describes a man with no family and no heir who still works relentlessly and never stops to ask who he is doing it for. It is one of the bleakest short portraits in the Bible, and it is aimed squarely at successful people. The question it forces is not how much you work but who your work is actually for.
“And he said unto them, Come ye yourselves apart into a desert place, and rest a while: for there were many coming and going, and they had no leisure so much as to eat.”
This comes at the busiest point in Mark's Gospel: the disciples return from a demanding mission, the crowds press in, and there is no time even to eat. Jesus responds by taking them away to rest. He does not wait for demand to drop off, because it never does. He interrupts the work himself and treats rest as part of the job.
A path forward
Pick the one hour of family time that matters most, bedtime or dinner or Saturday morning, and defend it absolutely for a month. One protected hour beats a vague intention to do better.
Ask your spouse or your children which part of your absence they feel most. The answer is often not the part you assumed, and it is usually fixable.
Pray together as a household once a week, even briefly. It puts your family back at the centre of your week rather than at the edges of it.
Closing verse
“To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven:”
- Ecclesiastes 3:1
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