35 questions
Relationships
Navigating love, friendship, betrayal, loneliness, and the hard work of staying connected.
My marriage feels dead. We're more like roommates than partners. What do I do?
OTSong of Solomon 8:6NTEphesians 5:25I keep choosing the wrong people to date. Why do I repeat this pattern?
OTProverbs 4:23NT2 Corinthians 6:14Someone I trusted deeply betrayed me. I'm furious and I don't know if I can forgive.
OTGenesis 50:20NTMatthew 18:21-22I'm lonely. I have acquaintances but no real friends. How do I build genuine connection?
OTProverbs 18:24NTActs 2:42-47I've been single for years and it's getting painful. Does God care about my loneliness?
OTPsalm 68:6NT1 Corinthians 7:32-35My close friend and I had a big fight and haven't spoken in months. Who should reach out first?
OTProverbs 17:14NTMatthew 5:23-24I want to believe this relationship is right, but I can't tell if I actually see it clearly or if I just want it badly. What should I be looking at?
OTProverbs 14:15NT1 Thessalonians 5:21People keep telling me there is one person God has picked out for me. Is that true, or am I supposed to just choose?
OTGenesis 2:18NT1 Corinthians 7:39I love someone who does not feel the same way about me. How do I stop hoping without turning bitter?
OTGenesis 29:31NTRomans 5:5I honestly do not know whether I should be dating right now. How do I tell what God wants for me in this season?
OTEcclesiastes 3:1NTColossians 3:15Everything about this feels intense and I cannot tell whether it is love or just infatuation. How do I know the difference?
OTSong of Solomon 2:7NT1 Corinthians 13:4-5We are getting married in a few months and I want to actually be ready, not just show up on the day. What should I be doing now?
OTGenesis 2:24NTEphesians 4:2-3Should I be actively looking for a spouse, or am I supposed to wait for God to bring someone? I keep going back and forth on this.
OTGenesis 24:12NTMatthew 7:7The person I love does not share my faith. It is not a small thing to me, and I do not know what to do with it.
OTAmos 3:3NT1 Corinthians 7:13-14I ended a relationship I knew was not right for me, and it still wrecked me. Why does doing the right thing hurt this much?
OTPsalm 6:6NTHebrews 12:11My heart is genuinely broken over losing this person. How does God heal something like that?
OTPsalm 147:3NT2 Corinthians 1:3-4I say yes to everything and I am exhausted and quietly resentful about it. Is it actually okay for a Christian to set limits?
OTExodus 18:17-18NTLuke 5:16I have pulled away from almost everyone over the last year and now I do not know how to come back. Where do I even start?
OT1 Kings 19:9-10NT2 Corinthians 7:6There is someone in my life who leaves me empty every single time we speak. How do I love them without losing myself?
OTNehemiah 6:3NTMark 6:31Am I allowed to walk away from a friendship that keeps hurting me, or does God expect me to stay no matter what?
OTProverbs 22:24-25NTActs 15:39My whole mood depends on how one person is doing. I cannot tell where they end and I begin anymore.
OTPsalm 118:8NTJohn 15:5A family member and I have not spoken in years, and nobody even remembers exactly how it started. Do I try, or leave it alone?
OTGenesis 33:4NT2 Corinthians 5:18After what people did to me, I do not know how to trust anyone again. Is being permanently guarded just wisdom now?
OTJeremiah 17:7-8NT2 Timothy 4:16-17My partner and I argue more than we actually talk lately. Every conversation turns into a fight. How do we stop this?
OTProverbs 15:18NTJames 4:1We are technically married but living separate lives under the same roof. Where does that leave us, and where does it leave me with God?
OTHosea 2:14NT1 Corinthians 7:10-11I was cheated on, and everyone around me keeps saying I should forgive. What does God actually ask of me here?
OTJeremiah 3:20NTHebrews 13:4Our marriage is coming apart and I am genuinely out of ideas. Where do I even start?
OTEzekiel 37:3NTMark 9:24Most of my closest friends are not Christians and people at church keep hinting that this is a problem. Is it?
OTDaniel 1:8NTMark 2:15-16My friendships are pleasant but nobody ever tells me the truth. How do I find people who actually make me better?
OTProverbs 27:17NTHebrews 10:24There is someone I am around constantly and I simply do not like them. Is it possible to love someone you cannot stand?
OTLeviticus 19:17-18NTLuke 6:27-28I said something cutting to someone I love and I cannot unsay it. How do I make this right?
OTProverbs 12:18NTJames 3:5-6Whenever a conversation gets hard I go quiet and shut down. How do I learn to actually say what I mean?
OTProverbs 27:5NTEphesians 4:15Someone I love keeps making choices that are wrecking their life, and I no longer know whether helping is helping. Do I keep stepping in?
OTProverbs 19:19NTLuke 15:12-13A friendship I really valued has just quietly gone cold. Neither of us did anything wrong. Do I try to bring it back?
OTRuth 1:16NTPhilippians 1:3We are doing fine, but I do not want to just coast until something breaks. What can we actually build on now?
OTPsalm 127:1NTColossians 3:14